What to Expect When You’re Expecting… Via Surrogacy
- Carlos Diaz
- Aug 15, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Aug 21, 2024
What to Expect When You’re Expecting… Via Surrogacy
The journey to parenthood through surrogacy is a unique and fulfilling adventure. While you may not experience the traditional ups and downs of pregnancy firsthand, there’s still plenty to anticipate, celebrate, and prepare for as you await the arrival of your little one. Let’s dive into some of the ways the surrogacy journey differs from a traditional pregnancy—and how you can stay fully involved along the way.
1. Your Cravings Are Optional
One of the most noticeable differences with surrogacy is that you won’t be the one dealing with pregnancy cravings or morning sickness! Instead of stocking up on pickles and ice cream, you can focus on planning special moments, like picking out your baby’s first outfit or designing the nursery. But don’t worry—you can still indulge in some fun “cravings” of your own while you prepare for parenthood.
2. Ultrasounds and Updates: Virtually Involved
With surrogacy, you might not be physically attending every doctor’s visit, but technology makes it easy to stay connected. You can join virtual ultrasound appointments, receive photos and videos of those precious moments, and access detailed reports. Surrogenics' interactive portal keeps you up to date with every milestone, so even from a distance, you’re still in the loop.
3. Bonding Before Birth: Making It Personal
Even though you’re not carrying the baby, there are creative ways to start bonding before birth. Sending audio recordings of your voice, singing lullabies, or reading bedtime stories can help your baby recognize you from day one. Some intended parents even send personalized playlists to their surrogate, filled with songs they’d like their baby to hear in the womb. These small, heartfelt gestures can build a strong connection before you even meet your baby.
4. Sharing the Journey with Your Surrogate
One of the unique joys of surrogacy is the relationship you build with your surrogate. This shared journey creates a special bond built on trust and collaboration. Regular communication, whether through video calls, messages, or updates shared in our portal, helps maintain that connection. Celebrating milestones together—like hearing the heartbeat for the first time or reaching the halfway point—makes the experience more rewarding for everyone involved.
5. Navigating the Waiting Game: Staying Patient and Positive
The waiting period during pregnancy can feel long, especially when you’re not directly experiencing the physical changes. But this time is also an opportunity to prepare in other ways. Whether it’s getting the nursery ready, taking parenting classes, or planning for life as a family, there’s plenty to keep you busy and excited. The surrogacy journey might involve extra patience, but every day brings you closer to holding your baby in your arms.
6. The Birth Experience: Your Moment to Shine
While your surrogate is doing the hard work of carrying and delivering the baby, your role during the birth is just as significant. Plan to be present when your baby arrives, and prepare for that first skin-to-skin contact, which is a crucial bonding moment. Whether you’re in the room cheering your surrogate on or waiting just outside, those first moments with your baby will be unforgettable.
7. Legal and Logistical Preparations: The Fine Print Matters
One key difference in surrogacy is the added layer of legal and logistical planning. From contracts to birth certificates and passport applications, there’s a lot to organize. Thankfully, agencies like Surrogenics handle much of this behind the scenes, ensuring everything is in place so that you can focus on the more joyful aspects of the journey.
8. Expect the Unexpected: Embracing the Surrogacy Path
Surrogacy comes with its own set of surprises and moments of unpredictability. While it’s not the same as navigating morning sickness or swollen feet, there are unique challenges—like managing the emotional ups and downs from afar or navigating the different timelines involved. But every hurdle is another step closer to meeting your baby, and the journey’s twists and turns are all part of your family’s story.
Final Thoughts: Your Unique Path to Parenthood
While the surrogacy journey might be different from the traditional path, it’s filled with just as much love, anticipation, and joy. With creative ways to stay connected, a strong partnership with your surrogate, and the support of your agency, you can expect a journey that’s both fulfilling and memorable. At Surrogenics, we’re here to guide you through every step, ensuring that your journey to parenthood is as seamless, joyful, and stress-free as possible.
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